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So, you want to learn how to touch, finger, and play with the pussy for the first time? Follow these simple instructions, and you will know in no time. Is this your first time having sex, and do you want to prepare? Welcome to RedBled! Just follow our advice and relax. It’s easier than you might think. Warming Her Up The first thing you must remember is simple, don’t jump straight to the pussy. Why? Because she is not yet wet, dummy. And going right to the pussy hole is not a good idea. Especially since women need warming up, comfort, and all that crap. As the saying goes, women heat up slowly, like an oven, while men are instant, like instant coffee. So, it would be best if you played with her first, and I don’t mean Xbox. But then, go ahead and explore that beautiful body of hers. Let’s hope she is not obese, although chubby women need love, too. What the heck should you do? Just touch her everywhere, kiss her breasts, nipples, etc. However, please do not focus on them! Instead, squeeze that ass, hips, maybe kiss her neck, and, of course, the lips. Just not the pussy lips, at least for now. Touch and tease, pull her hair, play with your fingers anywhere but pussy. Notice how she goes from cold to hot and messy. Are you unsure what to do next or how to proceed? Do not worry; go the regular route! As the saying goes, do not fix what is not broken. Start kissing her lips and neck, then very slowly move to her breasts and belly button. I think by now you do catch my drift, right? Go for the thighs but do not touch her pussy yet. Let her juices drop all over the place till she cannot take it anymore. We are marinating her pussy in her cum. Going for Pussy You are about to hit that pussy, champ, and she is waiting! That is probably what your eyes will see when her panties are off, and the game is on. Does this excite or worry you? Do not run away; this is a normal-looking pussy! Well, let’s ignore a delicious asshole for a minute unless you are ready to taste her brown spot. That would be a bit too weird after the first date! The Pussy Anatomy Lessons It's time for some fun and exciting lessons! Foremost, there are two pussy parts that you need to be aware of. The first one is the clitoris, and the second one is an already juicy pussy. That bottom hole is where you stick your finger in. Just spread that eagle and look closer. The hole at the bottom (right side, closer to the asshole) is where you put your fingers or penis. The one on the left side at the top is her clit which is now covered. Are you still not getting it? No worries. The finger will soon go inside the pussy! Some people will always say that the pussy hole is lower than they have seen. Please note the distance between her asshole and where your fingers or penis go in. You don’t want to spend that time looking for the right hole. Testing the Territory Moving on to the clit part. Now, do not touch or bite that thing off! Why? Because it is susceptible! To the point where it hurts. She is probably already wet, but do not stick your fingers in yet. Just take it nice and slow; there is no rush. The more you tease, the more pleasurable it will be for her relief herself. See the top part? That is her clitoris; if you tilt the skin up, it is there. Do not worry about hurting her; it does not hurt at all. Test by kissing it once and see how she reacts. Does she express any pain? Stop it! You did not do a thing wrong it just means that the clit is still too sensitive. Fingering Her Pussy Now, look where the fingers are and put them at the top, not inside the pussy. I do not recommend beginning with one. Two or three should be good enough. Place them there and start to play slowly. Rub it up and down, or, more importantly, in a clockwise direction, applying low pressure. You should start feeling the clit as it will be harder than other parts of her pussy. Does she not moan and look bored? Go counterclockwise and see what is happening! Some girls are weird and can only orgasm one way or another. Just keep doing that for a few minutes and see her reaction. Check her wetness levels as you rub that love hole. It is also important to moisten your fingers if they are too dry. Alternatively, just put a finger in her mouth and let her lick that thing for you. Kiss her pussy and see if it’s wet. Stick a finger, then another! Be sure to moisturize your fingers with saliva if she's as dry as sand. Now, proceed with rubbing and reapplying saliva or her pussy juice if needed. Do it, but do it patiently and wait for her to orgasm. Reaching the Orgasm If you have anything that vibrates, she will likely be extremely grateful for everything it is about to do. So rub it slowly near the clit part and keep playing with it, not too hard. Enjoy the moment and occasionally look her in the eyes. But, of course, there should be some sexual tension. Are you getting bored? Just keep on playing and see what happens. Sometimes, they take five to ten minutes to orgasm, and sometimes, it is instant. It all depends on her mood, partner, and level of arousal. If she can’t orgasm, this does not necessarily mean that you are to blame. Maybe she is too stressed out in real life. Look at all these pussy juices post-orgasm. You did it, champ! What a way to go! It is time to put your penis out and bang the crap out of her. Or if you want to play again, go on, slide your fingers inside her! Now is the time to show her your learned skills; do it nice and slow. The Aftermath What happens next is up to you. Put that cock inside her moist pussy, or wait for her to give you a blowjob. In other words, the opportunities and possibilities are endless. She has already experienced her first orgasm and will be grateful for that. The pressure is now off, and you no longer feel the need to make her cum from penetration. So that is a plus, of course. Last word of caution: don't be too aggressive, as her pussy might get micro-tears. Just play slowly, especially if this is your first time. Don't shove your thing down her pussy the minute you take off her panties! Unless you know she is wet. Penetrating a dry pussy is not a pleasant experience for both of you. And here you have it. Any questions? Don’t be shy and ask away! Fingering Tutorial & Ideas Text guides are excellent, but how about some girls fingering themselves? Close your eyes and imagine. Observe their technique, remember it, and test things in the field. Rub Her Gently One does not have to make a woman completely nude to have some fun in the first place. However, notice her circular movement at the top of her vagina. That’s where her clitoris is. Pay attention to the second part of the video, where the view is much better. See? You don’t have to be a scientist; it’s that simple. Try a New Angle When you get good at fingering, push a finger or two down her vagina and let those juices explode. The girl on the left is enjoying the experience, and you are both nearby, which makes it more sensual. Her wetness levels are at an all-time high, and she would love to have something inside her. Reaching the Orgasm Have you ever seen a woman reach orgasm? Not in those adult movies where, half of the time, it’s fake. I do mean the real thing! Some of the changes in her body include a raised heart level and temperature increase. Especially in the area down below! How can you tell if a woman is having a good time? First, look at her nipples; if they are hard, she is on. Rub Her Through Panties You can try different fingering techniques if this is your second or third time with a woman. One of my favorites is rubbing her through the panties. The fact that you can’t see all the beautiful things happening inside her makes for an unforgettable experience. Placing Your Fingers Here’s one of the clearest views of fingers and a vagina. See how effortless this looks? Try to mimic the movement and the pressure level that is applied. Hint: it’s slow and on a softer side. Pleasing your partner is not that complicated! On the contrary, it’s easy once you learn the basics. The good news? You just did it at the top of our article. Let Her Taste It Some women like to taste their vaginas, while others will refuse. Assuming she does the latter, don’t get offended. That’s just the way she is, at least for now. Things do change, and keep that in mind! More importantly, don’t try to shove it down her throat again. Remember, this is not a movie for adults. Pre-Orgasm Movement Her hip movement is not accidental. One thing that many tutorials skip is her excitement level! As you start fingering your woman, she could give you some trouble. In other words, it could become hard to continue rubbing her parts when one is not still. We've approached the crucial part! Please don’t remove your fingers; she is about to reach the orgasm. Fingering Close-Up I'll provide another GIF-form anatomy lesson at a great angle. All women's vaginas are different, which you can see by now. One thing that does not change, though, is the rubbing, despite a different shape. Stay cool, and don’t worry. You must have seen few pussy selfies by now, right? So, even if your partner’s technique differs, focus on the technique itself, which remains consistent. Her Vagina Juices See that glistering fluid? That’s an indication of her horniness. The more excited she is, the more bodily fluids will show up. It does not always have to be crystal clear. Don't freak out if you see whiteish liquid that somehow reminds you of semen. That is entirely normal; it means you're doing an excellent job. Taste the fruits of your labor if you dare. The G-Spot What’s the G-spot? As I like to call it, think of it as her orgasm button. Here’s a video that will give you another idea of how to reach this part. Notice the fingers and how they are arched to reach the top walls of her pussy. That's how you can make a female squirt. Why do you see this GIF anyway, especially moments after learning to finger a pussy? I wanted to show you that the world of stimulation is much deeper than just circular motion. The Climax I love to please my partner. It should be the most crucial part of your routine as well. A satisfied woman is a happy woman. If you make her world explode into millions of pieces, she will fall in love with you. Well, at least your technique if you aren’t a giant dick. You can also include a butt play if you're adventurous. That's it! These should clear up any remaining confusion. You can also have fun with these GIFs, if you know what I mean.

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