So, you want to learn how to touch, finger, and play with the pussy for the first time? Follow these simple instructions and you will know in no time. Is this your first time having sex and you want to prepare? Welcome to RedBled! Just follow our advice and relax. It\u2019s easier than you might think. Warming Her Up The first thing you need to remember is simple, don\u2019t jump straight to the pussy. Why? Because she is not yet wet, dummy. And going straight for that is not a good idea. Especially since women need warming up, comfort, and all that crap. As the saying goes, women heat up slowly like an oven while men are instant like instant coffee. So, you need to play with her, and I don\u2019t mean Xbox. Go ahead, explore that beautiful body of her. Let\u2019s hope she is not fat! Although chubby women need love too. What the heck should you do? Just touch her everywhere, kiss breasts, nipples, etc. However, do not focus on them! Squeeze that ass, hips, maybe kiss her neck and of course, the lips. Just not the pussy lips, at least for now. Touch and tease, pull her hair, play with your fingers anywhere but pussy. Notice how she goes from cold to hot and messy. Not sure what to do next or how exactly to proceed? Do not worry, just go the regular route! As the saying goes, do not fix what is not broken. Simply start kissing her lips, neck, and then slowly and very slowly move to her breasts, belly button. I think by now you do catch my drift, right? Go for the thighs but do not touch her pussy yet. Let her juices drop all over the place till she cannot take it anymore. We are marinating her pussy in her cum. Going for Pussy You are about to hit that pussy, champ, and she is waiting! This is probably what your eyes are or will be seeing the moment her panties are off. Does this excite or worry you? Do not run away, this is a normal looking pussy! Well, let\u2019s ignore that brown asshole for a minute. Unless you are ready to taste her brown spot. That would be a bit too weird after the first date! The Pussy Anatomy Lessons It's time for some fun and exciting lessons! There are two pussy parts that you need to be aware of. First is called the clitoris and then you have that juicy pussy. This is where you stick that finger in. Just spread that eagle and look closer. The hole at the bottom (right side, closer to the asshole) is where you put your fingers or penis in. The one on the left side at the top is her clit that is now covered. Are you still not getting it? No worries. The finger will soon go inside the pussy! Some people will always say that the pussy hole is lower than they have seen. Please do note the distance between her asshole and where your fingers or penis go in. You don\u2019t want to spend that time looking for the right hole. Testing the Territory Moving on to the clit part... Now, do not touch or bite that thing off! Why? Because it is extremely sensitive! To the point where it hurts. Sure, she is probably already wet, but do not stick your fingers in yet. Just take it nice and slow\u2026 There is no rush, the more you tease, the more pleasurable it will be her relief. See the top part? This is her clitoris, if you tilt the skin up, it is there. Do not worry about hurting her, it does not hurt at all. Test by kissing it once and see how she reacts. Does she express any pain? Stop it! You did not a thing wrong it just means that the clit is still too sensitive. Fingering Her Pussy Now, look where the fingers are and put them at the top, not inside the pussy. I do not recommend beginning with one. Two or three should be good enough. Place them there and start to play slowly. Rub it up and down or more importantly, clockwise, applying low amounts of pressure. You should start feeling the clit as it will be harder than other parts of her pussy. Does she not moan and look bored? Go counterclockwise and see what is happening! Some girls are weird and can only orgasm one way or another. Just keep doing that for a few minutes and see her reaction. Check her wetness levels as you rub that love hole. It is important to spit on your fingers too, that\u2019s if it is too dry. Alternatively, just put a finger in her mouth and let her lick that thing for you. Kiss her pussy and see if it\u2019s wet. Stick a finger, then another! Be sure to moisturize your fingers with saliva if she's as dry as sand. Now, proceed with rubbing and reapply saliva or her pussy juice if needed. Do it, but do it patiently, and wait for her to orgasm. Reaching the Orgasm If you have anything that vibrates, she will likely be extremely grateful for all the things it is about to do. Rub it slowly near the clit part and just keep on playing with it, not too hard. Enjoy the moment and occasionally look at her eyes. This should add some sexual tension. Are you getting bored? Just keep on playing and see what happens. Sometimes they take five to ten minutes to orgasm and sometimes it is pretty much instant. It all depends on her mood, partner as well as the level of arousal. If she can\u2019t orgasm, this does not necessarily mean that you are to blame. Maybe she is too stressed out in real life. Look at all these pussy juices post-orgasm. You did it, champ! What a way to go! It is time to put your penis out and bang the crap out of her. Or if you want to play again, go on, slide your fingers inside her! Now is the time to show her your learned skills, do it nice and slow. The Aftermath What happens next is up to you. Put that cock inside her pussy or wait for her to give you a blowjob. In other words, the opportunities and possibilities are endless. She already experienced her first orgasm and will be grateful for that. The pressure is now off, and you aren\u2019t forced to make her cum from penetration. That is a plus, of course. Last word of caution: don't be too aggressive as her pussy might get micro-tears. Just play slowly, especially if this is your first time. Don't shove your thing down her pussy the minute you take her panties out! Unless you know she is wet. Penetrating a dry pussy is not a pleasant experience for both of you. And here you have it. Any questions? Don\u2019t be shy and ask away! Fingering Tutorial & Ideas Text guides are great and that, but how about some girls fingering themselves? Close your eyes and imagine. Look at their technique, remember, and test things out in the field. Rub Her Gently One does not have to make a woman completely nude to have some fun in the first place. Do notice her circular movement at the top area of her vagina. That\u2019s where here clitoris is. Pay attention to the second part of the video, where a view is much better. See? You don\u2019t have to be a scientist, it\u2019s that simple. Try a New Angle When you get good at fingering, push a finger or two down her vagina and let those juices explode. The girl on the left is enjoying the experience and the fact that you are both nearby makes more sensual. Her wetness levels are at the all-time high at this point and she would love to have something inside her. Reaching the Orgasm Have you ever seen a woman reach orgasm? Not in those adult movies where half of the time it\u2019s faked. I do mean the real thing! Some of the changes in her body include a raised heart level and temperature increase. Especially in the area down below! How can you tell if a woman is having fun? Look at her nipples, if they are hard, she is on. Rub Her Through Panties If this is your second or third time with a woman, you can try different fingering techniques. One of my favorites is rubbing her through the panties. The fact that you can\u2019t see all the beautiful things that are happening inside her does make for an unforgettable experience. Placing Your Fingers Here\u2019s one of the clearest views of fingers and vagina. See how effortless this looks? Try to mimic the movement and a pressure level that is applied. Hint: it\u2019s slow and on a softer side. Pleasing your partner is not that complicated! It\u2019s easy once you learn the basics. The good news? You just did at the top of our article. Let Her Taste It Some women like to taste their vaginas, while others will refuse. Assuming she does the later, don\u2019t get offended. That\u2019s just the way she is, at least for now. Things do change and keep that in mind! More importantly, don\u2019t try to shove it down her throat again. This is not an adult movie. Pre-Orgasm Movement Her hip movement is not accidental. One thing that many tutorials skip is her excitement level! As you start fingering your woman, she could give you some trouble. In other words, it could become hard to continue rubbing her parts when one is not still. This is the crucial part! Don\u2019t remove your fingers, she is about to reach the orgasm. Fingering Close-Up Another anatomy lesson, but in a GIF form and at a great angle. All women's vaginas are different, which you can see by now. One thing that does not change though is the rubbing, despite a different shape. Stay cool and don\u2019t worry. You must have seen few pussy selfies by now, right? So, even if your partner\u2019s privates are different, focus on technique, which is always similar. Her Vagina Juices See that glistering fluid? That\u2019s the indication of her horniness. The more excited she is, the more bodily fluids will show up. It does not always have to be crystal clear. If you see whiteish liquid that in some ways reminds you of semen, don\u2019t freak out. This is completely normal. That\u2019s good news! The G-Spot What\u2019s the g-spot? As I like to call it, think of it as her orgasm button. Here\u2019s a video that will give you another idea on how to reach this part. Notice the fingers and the way they are arched to reach the top walls of her pussy. That's how you can make a female squirt. Why are you seeing this GIF anyway, especially moments after learning how to finger a pussy? I did want to show you that the world of stimulation is so much deeper than just circular motion. The Climax I love to please my partner. It should be the most important part of your routine as well. A satisfied woman is a happy woman. If you make her world explode into millions of pieces, she will fall in love with you. Well, at least your technique if you aren\u2019t a giant dick. You can also include a butt play if you're adventurous. That's it! These should clear up any confusion you have left and\u2026 Well, you can also have some fun with these if you know what I mean.